Family Feuds 02-20-11

The other night I was sitting over at my sisters house drinking a little bit and having a good time when out of no where her boyfriend just flips out. He starts yelling that me and my husband, along with my mother and my brother have been talking crap on him and my sister to my sisters ex-husband. Not only is this not true but they believed every word that her ex- husband had to say. We sat there for a good three hours, all of us just yelling at each other, drudging stuff up from the past that should have been old news to everybody. At the end of this argument I thought everything was good but all of knows how the other people are and it wont be long before it happens again. I seem to attract the craziness because on my husbands side of the family, is another feud going on but this time with one of his cousins girlfriends. Now it is a well known fact that this girl cant seem to keep her legs closed for anybody and his cousin doesnt really seem to care because he is still with her after this has happened for three or so years straight. I had to laugh my ass off when this girl starts calling my husbands family a bunch of " drama addicted people" because quite frankly I agree. About two years ago me and this same girl were sitting in my living room have a discussion about the little things that piss us off and my husbands family had their little parts in these little things. The only thing was, is that the conversation that I thought was private was told to his whole family, and wouldn't you know, the skanky girl had left everything she had said out of the loop, making me appear to be the horrible bi-otch . His family shunned me and made me feel like a piece of crap until finally one of them asked for the damn truth and now with everything happening this week they can see what kind of liar and manipulator this girl is! I still haven't got an apology for what they did to me and when I brought this same fact up last night, my husband once again took their side over mine. I understand family loyalty but I thought I was his family. What I'm trying to get across is the fact that some family feuds can be worked out, given time, but others are pointless to try and even bring up when you don't have back up. I'm just venting.. Maybe this blog/ journal thing won't be so bad after all...